Restraint or control is basically the art of distraction. A self-controlled person would emphasis more on distracting the temptation rather than focussing on resisting the temptation. A smart man that he is, he knows that resistance is much harder than distraction.
Let us consider an example, a person is very angry and he is all geared up and tempted to blast a man right in front of him. Instead of spitting his anger, if he focusses on silencing his mind for some time and distracts his own attention from anger, he would avoid all the confrontations and the regret which are sure to come by later.
In one of our ancient script, self-restraint/ self-control has been explained in a consequent way.
उदकान् हि नयन्ति नेत्तिका
उसुकार नमयन्ति तेजनम्।
दारुं नमयन्ति तच्चका
अत्तानं दमयन्ति पण्डिता॥
The irrigators direct the flow of the water into the fields, the fletcher (the arrow maker) fashion the shaft, Carpenters bend the wood, but, the wise control themselves.
The Saanu and Banu book series helps the kids to understand the splendor of self –restraint better. Fun filled and colorfully illustrated story books have been the obvious choice. The topics in the story books are meticulously chosen and stories are narrated based on real life circumstances to suit the contemporary society, this helps the kids to connect themselves to the real world.
Restraint
A man is, what company he keeps. The child needs to be in a positive environment during the growing up years which will nourish his/her all round development. Now the question is , how will the child know if he is gaining some positivity which is enhancing his personality? Below is the answer.
1. Parents supervision with a eagles eyes
2. Saanu and Banu book series for the topic ‘Be in good company ‘ will trigger their minds.
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Forgiving is the biggest trait of a strong person. He shallot take revenge nor destroy his peace by keeping the baggage of hate on his back. The book particularly emphasis on FORGIVENESS , a child will learn from the story of Saanu and Banu that forgiveness is real bliss.
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This book will guide a child to manage his anger. A funny Song ‘Be Happy Wappy ,Don’t be angry, Be Happy Wappy don’t be grumpy ……… is included .
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The common complaint about parents from the millennium children is about their addiction to the screen . It is not only straining their eyes, but also their focus on studies, their strained relationships with their friends & parents. The main issue is ‘How much is too much?’, how do children judge and manage their time effectively so that their screen time is reduced.
Saanu and Banu book series has tried a formula to distract the children from weaning the screen time. Inculcating reading habit, having fun filled activities , song time and dance times are a few of the distractions.
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This book throws light on how to manage Jealousy …….
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Often we all have the feeling that whatever we have with us is not enough. We always yearn to have more and more always. Desire to having more is okay, but that shouldn’t turn into greediness . Because, the root to unhappiness is being greedy.
In this book the author emphasises on content living & how to draw a line between being greedy and being content .
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A certain meditation techniques are taught in this book .
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Today’s children get into the games and TV so much that they do not now that people around them are real! We have often heard cases about kids hitting each other and fighting , duplicating a movie or a game scene.
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